Tuesday, September 27, 2016

I Wish He Had Come with Instructions by Mike Bechtle


What Is He "Really" Thinking? 

When a woman begins a relationship with a man, she may think she's found her knight in shining armor. As the relationship continues, that armor can begin to feel like a barricade she just can't get past it. What's he hiding in there, anyway? 

Relationship and communication expert Mike Bechtle offers women an insider's guide to the puzzling male brain. Simple and practical, this book provides women with a roadmap for better conversations and improved relationships. Bechtle reminds readers that men and women share many similarities, and by embracing those similarities they can better deal with differences. He explains how men think, act, communicate, and grow in relationships, and even offers tips for communicating in a toxic relationship. 

Wives, girlfriends, mothers, daughters, friends, and coworkers will find real help within these pages.

My Thoughts:

First, I love that this was written by a male perspective. Mike did a great job making this book funny, honest and he did not apologize for his gender. I also appreciate that this book is not one with a list of instructions on how to change your husband because I was skeptical of this book based on title. Instead this book give the reader information on the genetic and brain chemistry of a male, which helped females liked myself understand why males respond to certain situations the way they do. 

I think this book would be good for any female wanting to understand how to be a better wife, especially newly weds trying to understand how to communicate. This book points out simple truths in understanding males that many women don't understand till further in their married years. I really enjoyed that this book was told from a male author and I think many females will benefit from reading this book to understand their spouse better. I give this book 4/5 stars. Thank you to Revell Publishing. I was not compensated for a positive review, but given a complimentary copy for review purposes only. 

Pick up your copy here! 

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