As promised here is the first devotional from "For Women Only". I hope this finds you well and gives you some knowledge in the male world!
The more we understand then men in our lives, the better we can support and love them the way they need to be loved. While it may be totally foreign to most of us, the male need for respect and affirmation- especially from his woman is- is so hard wired and so critical that most men would rather feel unloved then disrespected or inadequate.
If a man feels disrespected, he is going to feel unloved. This translates to : " If you want to love the man in your life the way he needs to be loved, then you need to ensure he feels your respect most of all .
Most women do respect the male in their life, but don't realize how their actions or words convey the exact opposite! So take thought to your words and actions for this is huge!
" In a relationship conflict, crying is often a woman's response to feeling unloved, and anger is often a males response to feeling disrespected."
Thought for the weekend: Try to think about ways you can be respectful towards the men in your life whether it be a father, brother, boyfriend or male co- worker.
I hope this first devotional was insightful. I gained some information :)
Love you girls! Blessings this 2009 season!